Apr 14 2009
Suzy Eyre
Few things make a girl feel more like a distressed gentlewoman than selling her jewelry. I almost felt as if I should be clutching a threadbare shawl about my shoulders and writing answers to advertisements for governesses in remote country houses.
The possible purchaser (not surprisingly, I haven’t made up my mind yet whether I can part with it or not) was a kind and experienced woman, who told me more about my ring than I had ever known. It was like Jewelry CSI as she peered at the ring through a giant magnifying glass and told me how it was made and why old diamonds (the ring dates from around 1900) are different from new diamonds.
The ring needs to be cleaned before the appraisal can be completed, and when I have all the information, I’ll decide what to do.
I don’t feel as sad about it as I thought I would. I rarely wear it anymore, and it’s part of the past. It’s actually less painful to let it go than to have it and not want to wear it. I like to think of a young man searching for the right ring for his beloved, and falling for the ring the way he fell for her. Or a couple looking together for the ring that symbolizes their love, their future, both knowing it’s the one.
I loved having it, but it’s time for someone else to enjoy it.
I seem to have decided, don’t I?
2 Responses to “Suzy Eyre”
Suzy – what a lot of decisions you have to deal with of late.. The ring looks beautiful.
jx
In my opinion it’s a good thing to get rid of the past and look towards the future. The fact that you have already decided to sell the ring, tells me you’re ready to look ahead. Remember, you can control the future but can’t change the past.