Oct 25 2014

You Win Some…

Published by at 4:14 am under Cats,Work

It’s birds 2, kitties 0 on today’s scoreboard!

Clyde appeared with a bird in his mouth, and I went to take it away from him, surprising both him and the bird and letting it out of Clyde’s mouth. The bird rocketed up into the redwoods to our mutual relief.

I had barely recovered from this close brush with death when Roscoe trotted into the living room with, you guessed it, a bird in his mouth. Again I rescued the bird, and again it flew away quickly and happily. Sometimes when I get birds out of the cat’s mouths, they sit there kind of stunned and I’m not always sure they make it. It was great to know they escaped unscathed, at least this time.

After the avian escapade, Clyde settled next to me on the couch, looking like a little angel and snoring softly:

It’s hard to believe that he was a murderous, bird-killing machine only moments earlier, isn’t it?

I was glad to have Clyde’s cuddlesome support, because we got the termination letter from my job, and I had to compose emails to break the news to the managers I have worked with for many years and cancel the quarterly calls I had set up for next week. Little did I imagine that the last time I spoke to them all would be, well, the last time I spoke to them.

Over the years, I have grown to care about these people. Together, we have gone through a family member’s successful battle against cancer; the birth of a first child; another child’s 4-H ribbons, yet another being accepted to an Ivy League school and a graduation from West Point. I’ve heard about family reunions, marriages, and promotions, and we’ve congratulated each other on World Series bids and wins. I valued our partnership both personally and professionally, and I can’t believe I will never talk to these folks again.

But we have had to hand everything over, and with a lawsuit pending, we have to be careful what we say and who we say it to.

I feel much the way I did when John and I divorced. It was a great loss, and I was saddened by the end of something I went into so optimistically and hopefully and which I thought would last forever. I’ve been spending a lot of time beating myself up for poor decision-making and ending up with no money at a semi-advanced age, but I am proud of what my boss/partner and I achieved together over a decade. We tripled our client’s money in three years, kept the pension fund fully funded through the 2008 market crash and the city’s bankruptcy, and were employers in that embattled state and city. We sponsored an annual golf tournament which raised thousands of dollars for scholarships for needy children of that city. And we did it all with integrity, passion, and caring. We have a lot to be proud of in the face of defeat.


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3 Responses to “You Win Some…”

  1. Guyon 25 Oct 2014 at 1:14 pm

    Happy to hear the birds were not harmed, cats are natural hunters and catching prey is part of their survival code but letting them go means that they are well fed and have no need for killing just to kill, wish humans were just as smart. Sorry to hear about your job Suzy but you seemed to have accomplished many good things and have many sweet memories of them, always be proud of the many accomplishments and friends you have made, this they cannot take away from you. The Elders always told me: one of the happiest moments is when you will find the courage to let go of the things you cannot change.

  2. Alisonon 26 Oct 2014 at 12:19 am


  3. Joyon 26 Oct 2014 at 12:45 pm

    Having cats is quite an experience! At least ours are indoor kitties – though this does give one a bit more work to do (i.e. kitty litter etc., )

    Well, again, Guy has said it all. We really feel for you and hope that although this door has closed you will find another opening. You have a lot to be proud of with good memories to boot….
    I wonder if any of those contacts you have made could be instrumental in finding you a new job?!

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